12 WEEK PROGRAM
You have built a beautiful life on your own. Now you are ready to share it. 12 weeks to attracting healthy, committed love, and to dating that is easier, more playful and more fun. Without chasing, settling, or becoming someone you are not.
Book my call with Ra45 minutes, free. No pitch if it is not a fit.
Starts Monday 19 October. 12 weeks, 12 live calls, 5 places left.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
Every woman who has come to me has been capable everywhere else in her life. Love is the one piece that has not fallen into place yet.
If that read like your last three years, start with a call.
Book my call with Ra45 minutes, free, one to one.
AND YOU ARE TIRED
You have met all 5. You may have dated all 5 in the same year. It is enough to make a woman decide something about men in general, which is exactly where the trouble starts.
THE PART NOBODY TELLS YOU
Skills can be learned. Most women were never taught this one.
What draws a steady man is not luck, looks, or waiting long enough.
Lasting love is not a coincidence.
THE PROGRAM
Every week has a module and a live call with me and the group. 12 of each, in the order that makes them work. Here is what is different by the end of each part.
The grief gets put down properly instead of managed, your fire comes back, and your body stops treating every new man as something to brace against.
Boundaries stop being walls that keep everyone out and become the thing that lets the right man in further.
What creates attraction in a man, what kills it without you noticing, and what makes him certain enough to choose you out loud.
The last two weeks are live practice and a look back at what has moved, so the change holds after the 12 weeks end.
12 weeks, in this order, starting when you are ready.
Book my call with RaWe use the call to work out whether this is the right 12 weeks for you.
WHAT YOU GET
Free, 45 minutes, and you leave with something either way.
WOMEN I HAVE WORKED WITH
3 months in, what I notice most is what I have stopped doing. I used to steer every conversation so that nobody could reject me first, and I did it so smoothly that I thought it was my personality. Ra is gentle and he does not let you off. The hypnotherapy reached things I had been talking about for years without moving. My love life changed, and so did my business.
Santoshi, 40
What Ra gives you is time. Time to say the thing out loud and hear what you think about it, which at 47 I had quietly stopped making room for. He holds the space and he does not steer it anywhere. I leave clearer about who I am and what matters to me, and that has changed how I stand in front of a man more than any advice ever did.
Maya Lila, 47
I arrived able to explain all my patterns and still repeating them. Ra does not let you stay in the explanation. He asks the question you have been walking around for years, then waits while you find the answer yourself. None of it felt like being fixed or being sold something. 3 months on, things I used to put up with I simply do not put up with.
Marina, 30
THE GROUP
You meet on a live call every week. You hear what she tried on Thursday and how it went, and she hears yours. Most women tell me the calls are the part they underestimated before they started and the part they miss when it ends.
5 places in this group. That is on purpose, so there is room for your situation rather than the general version of it.
WHO YOU WOULD BE WORKING WITH
I work with women on one thing. Meeting a man who can hold a relationship, and choosing him on purpose rather than by accident.
My marriage ended after 12 years. I had abandoned myself inside it so completely that the end felt like waking up out of a dream, and seeing that I had been standing in the wrong position the whole time, far over on the feminine side of a relationship that needed me somewhere else.
Since then I have studied psychology, masculine and feminine polarity, and what makes a relationship healthy rather than merely long. I know what overgiving feels like from the inside. The hiding, the people pleasing, the slow disappearing. I also know how it feels to have peace and freedom inside a partnership that holds you, and the distance between those two things is the whole of my work.
Over 100 women since 2023, when I finished my therapist training. Some for a single session, some at a free workshop, some for months. The pattern I see most is a woman who handles every area of her life well, and then love feels like the one part that sits outside her control. It does not.
45 minutes with me, free.
BEFORE YOU BOOK
Still reading? That is usually your answer.
Book my call with Ra45 minutes, free, no pressure on the call.
QUESTIONS
Therapy explains the pattern. This changes what you do on Thursday night when the message arrives. Every module ends with something you take into your dating life that week, and the next one builds on what happened.
No. The women who move fastest through this are usually the ones who have been through a long relationship, because they know what they are looking at. Age is not what slows women down. Twenty years of a habit nobody has ever named is.
Both. Each week you get the module to work through in your own time, then we meet on a live community call. 12 modules, 12 calls. The group stays small on purpose, so there is room for your situation and not just the general version of it.
Every call is recorded and you get it within a day. Send me your question beforehand and I will cover it on the call, so missing one costs you the room, not the answer.
You have to meet men. Apps are one way and we will make yours work properly if you use them. If you would rather meet people through your life, section four builds that instead.
Good, because they stop working around date 4. What you get is wording for the 2 or 3 conversations that decide everything, so you say what you mean without softening it into something he can misread.
I give you the figure on the call, once I know it fits, because a number only means something next to what you are trying to change. There is a payment plan. If it is out of reach I will say so and point you somewhere useful.
45 minutes on video. You tell me where you are, I tell you what I see and whether I can help. If it is a fit I explain how the 12 weeks work and what it costs. If it is not, I say that instead, and you leave with something you can use either way.
BOOK A CALL
Tell me where you are with it. I will tell you what I see, and whether 12 weeks would change anything.
The group stays small so everyone gets exactly what they need on the calls. When the 5 are taken, the next group starts in the new year.
Free, 45 minutes. 5 places left for the 19 October group.
